A test for you-take 3 on mental attitude

You know yesterday introduced you to the concept of locus of control today i have test that will tell you which one you are. Please leave a comment on the blog telling me what you thought about the test and at the end of march i will reveal something amusing about the test and locus of control......for the test follow the link below

http://similarminds.com/locus.html


In life you will find that all successful people have an internal locus of control, while the unsuccessful or average has an external locus of control. The same is true that happy people have an internal and unhappy/ depressed people external locus of control.

Look at it this way. You are riding in the car of life. If you are an external locus of control person the problem is that you are in the passenger seat. You have no control over where the car is going. If the car is headed for the trees, you have to brace yourself. If it is headed for the cliffs just hold on. There is nothing you can do apart from scream and just hope to luck out for a change.

Internal locus of control makes you have control of your life. As soon as we take responsibility for our lives they begin to change and we start have control over them. It is about time that you say, “ I have the ability to become successful, i have gifts , the talents needed to make my financial, relational or educational dreams a reality. You know out there are millionaires or successful people out there who are not as smart as me, as gifted as i am. I am turning the car around and i am headed towards my dreams, aspirations and my goals in life. I have no one to blame. Instead i take charge of my life.

I dare you to start thinking like this.....if that’s a dare you accept then start making time for the things i will be speaking about from tomorrow....I will see you then....

More talk about mind set, are you an inner or an outer person?

How many of you have heard this saying “it takes one to know one” well read on and discovery something new today. There are two types of people those with an external locus of control that is things that happen externally affect them on the inside i.e. they will blame everything that happens to them on someone else or something else you will hear them say it is the economy’s fault, it is my bosses fault, my parents or spouse fault. They have no control over life, life controls them and they feel they have to sit back and take whatever life throws at them.
Then there is the person with an internal locus of control meaning their life is controlled from the inside out. What it is in you produces itself outside of you. My external world is a mirror image of my internal world. I am in charge of my life by controlling me, my thoughts, my attitudes and my behaviours. If I change in me, I change out of me. If I take control of my thoughts, I take control of my emotions, of my attitudes. And I control my world from the inside out; this means if I don’t like something about my life I have the power to change it.
So I ask you my friend which one are you or would you rather be.....???

The money mind set of a lottery winner

I want to ask you a question but you have to promise to be honest? Would you rather win £ 5 000 000 on the lottery or work for it?....before you answer my question please read this stories i recently picked up about a lottery winner in the US and UK

http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/SavingandDebt/SaveMoney/8lotteryWinnersWhoLostTheirMillions.aspx

http://www.money.co.uk/article/1002156-how-the-lives-of-10-lottery-millionaires-went-disasterously-wrong.htm

Ever wondered why 90% of lottery winners become broke after a couple of years? it is because they don’t have a mind set for having the riches? It’s like they go back to what they are comfortable with. It like when you win money you are not responsible for making you don’t feel comfortable spending it responsibly. I heard this story of a guy in Germany who won €25,000 0000 and the first thing he went and brought was a helicopter what do you think of that?

Don’t get me wrong am not here to tell you not to play the lottery, but rather to get in your mind the mindset of making lottery amounts in your own right and help furnish you with the tools to keep it and make it grow.....

I will help you step out of your old life and step into the life you desire, remember the most important thing is I have to be willing to step out and do what i need to do in order to get the things i don’t have now .are you willing to put the time and what is required to get there? Am not as wealthy as i need to be but i have been studying a lot of wealth creating strategies and i am starting to live the principles on my blog you will be able to follow me and when I crack it you would be able to prove if the strategies work .

Consider me as your case study are you ready for the secrets I have learned.......?

INSIDE OUT

“Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threating because it means that things may get worse. To hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exist to make things better” King Whitney JR

There is an internal change that has to take place for you to realize change on the outside. Remember do not de scared of change, like change and change will lead you to the road of the world that you always desire...... What is in you will always create your world, you must change the inward man for the outward man to change.

What makes people afraid of change then? I promise to tell you this but before i tell you this you have to promise me that you will come with me on a 21 days journey on this blog that will change your life......