
More talk about mind set, are you an inner or an outer person?
How many of you have heard this saying “it takes one to know one” well read on and discovery something new today. There are two types of people those with an external locus of control that is things that happen externally affect them on the inside i.e. they will blame everything that happens to them on someone else or something else you will hear them say it is the economy’s fault, it is my bosses fault, my parents or spouse fault. They have no control over life, life controls them and they feel they have to sit back and take whatever life throws at them.
Then there is the person with an internal locus of control meaning their life is controlled from the inside out. What it is in you produces itself outside of you. My external world is a mirror image of my internal world. I am in charge of my life by controlling me, my thoughts, my attitudes and my behaviours. If I change in me, I change out of me. If I take control of my thoughts, I take control of my emotions, of my attitudes. And I control my world from the inside out; this means if I don’t like something about my life I have the power to change it.
So I ask you my friend which one are you or would you rather be.....???
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