
The law of control
“I feel happy to the degree to which I am in control” Andrew Bobaa
The level you feel that you are happy in control dictates your level of happiness. Have you ever been in the passenger seat, riding with a really bad driver? They are swerving in and out of traffic, looking way too much at you while they are driving, right on the back side of the car in front of you.
While you are in the passenger seat, you are stressed out, not happy, not relaxed. This goes for life. When you are not in control of your life you are not happy you are stressed out, full of fear worry, anxiety.
When life is out of control and you are a victim to circumstances, it is impossible for you to be happy. When you feel like you have to go work, you have to do what the boss says and you have to go home to a marriage that feels like a trap, you have no control over your life whatsoever. The only time you have control is when you have control of the remote control to watch what you want on telly. This is why so many people spend so four to five hours a day watching tel-a lie-vision. You know why because it is the only time they have a sense of peace, because it is the only time of the day they feel like they are in control.
Readers, ask yourself this, what am l in control of? the remote control or my life? Stay tuned tomorrow we will embark on journey of taking control.
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